If your girlfriend broke up with you, it was probably one of the hardest things you’ve ever dealt with. Even if you tried to get on with your life and act like nothing happened, it had to have affected you more than you let anyone know. Maybe you even secretly hoped you’d get back together in just a few days or weeks, and then it happened: You saw your girlfriend with someone else. It seemed like your chances of getting her back were over. So now you’re looking for ways to get your girlfriend back even if she’s dating someone else. Here are some tips for you!

1. Realize that even if your ex girlfriend is dating again, you still have a chance at getting her back. Most rebound relationships are doomed to fail before they even start. Why? Because your girlfriend is still emotionally attached to you, even though you broke up. So she’s comparing the new guy to you constantly, evaluating whether or not he is like you. This means she is still thinking about you! So keep that in mind while you are looking for ways to get your girlfriend back!

2. Start to move on with your life too. If you really want to get your girlfriend back and she’s dating someone else, you need to make sure that you aren’t obviously waiting around for her to come back. You don’t have to date other people, but you do need to make sure you are out doing things that make you happy. If your girlfriend sees that you aren’t desperate for her to come back, she will be more attracted to you and wonder what you’ve been up to.

3. Call your ex girlfriend or “accidentally-on-purpose” run into her somewhere. If you are still talking to your ex girlfriend it will make it easier to get her back. But if you aren’t, and you know where you can casually run into her, or if you feel like you can call her and ask her to meet you for coffee, now is the time to do it. Show her how great you are doing and make sure that the interaction you have with her is friendly and doesn’t have strings attached. If she seems hesitant to talk to you, keep things light and care-free, and then try again in a couple of weeks. Don’t give up, but don’t pressure her or seem too needy!

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