How to Get Your Girlfriend Back Without Sacrificing Your Dignity

On June 20, 2010, in get your girlfriend back information, by Penelope Allen

So you and your girlfriend broke up. And even if it didn’t seem like it would be that hard at first, now you find yourself thinking about her a lot. You wonder what she’s doing, and if there’s any way you can get your girlfriend back without seeming too desperate. It’s not like you want to beg her to take you back. Actually, if you could get her back and it be her idea, that’d be even better. So what should you do?

The first step if you want to get your girlfriend back and have it be her idea, is to completely cut off contact with her. If you find yourself texting her or calling her almost every day, it’s time to stop. And if she is giving you attitude or not even answering your phone calls anymore, then it really is time to give her a break.

Sometimes girls just use a breakup as a way to get space and make a point. So if you’re still talking to her, the best thing you can do is to enforce the No Contact Rule. Set aside a specific amount of time that you promise yourself you won’t talk to her. Maybe it’s 3 or 4 days. Or maybe it’s two weeks. Whatever it is, don’t let yourself call, text, or email (or Facebook message) your girlfriend at all. No Contact.

How does the No Contact Rule help you get your girlfriend back?
1. She’s going to notice that you aren’t calling her.
2. She’s going to start wondering why you aren’t calling her.
3. It’s going to start driving her crazy that you aren’t calling her.
4. She’s going to start to miss you and thinking about what you’re doing and who you’re with.
5. Chances are, before your set amount of time using the No Contact Rule is over, SHE will call YOU.

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